First, it is crucial to determine if there is a relationship. So many times, I have seen scenarios when a woman or a man believes they are in a relationship. This woman or man is
Svetlana Mukha
Professional matchmaker
Certified dating coach
Author of books:
- “7 Principles of the Woman The Brand”,
- “The Eighth Principle of The Woman The Brand”,
- “Nothing Personal, Just Love”
- “Nothing Personal, Just Marriage”
Dating blogger
Founder and the leading Cupid at professional matchmaking agency
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"Nothing Personal, Just Love"
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The Sixth Heart
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Nothing Personal, Just Marriage
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"Nothing Personal, Just Love"
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“The Eighth Principle of The Woman The Brand”
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“7 Principles of the Woman The Brand”
About me
– Founder, leading matchmaker and dating coach at Diolli.com since 2008
– Founder and Director at Paradisedate.com.ua since 2008
– Best Matchmaker by iDate Awards’ 2016
– The Entrepreneur of the year 2017 by Euro Dating Awards
– Founder of the Premium Festival for women Kablooks.com
– The main cupid at the first professional portal about relationship Cupidonduty.com
– Co-author of the international bestselling book “Secrets to Drama-Free Love”
– Speaker and participant of international dating conferences
– 10 plus years of professional matchmaking experience
– Author of books “7 Principles of the Woman The Brand”, “The Eighth Principle of The Woman The Brand” and “Nothing Personal, Just Love”
Hobbies
– Recruiting the beautiful smart special ladies for favorite male clients
– Educating and inspiring the future Cupids
– Increasing the prestige and level of the dating market in CIS
– Writes the blog about crazy dates
– Languages (English, German, Russian, Ukrainian, Chinese, French)
– Reading (difficult to count up the number of books that were read: from economical books to the real fantasy)
– Traveling (more than 40 countries)
Books
“Nothing Personal, Just Life”
In EU and worldwide 15 eur
The book “Nothing Personal, Just Life” is now available for pre-order in Russian and Ukrainian.
Delivery is available within Ukraine, as well as to EU countries, the USA, Israel, Kazakhstan, and Canada.
Pre-orders within Ukraine will be shipped between June 1 and June 15, 2026; international orders will be shipped throughout June 2026.
When placing a pre-order to EU countries, the USA, Israel, Kazakhstan, or Canada, please check the shipping cost. To do so, kindly leave your email address and phone number.
As you know, I publish my books at my own expense. I would be especially grateful if you support me by placing a pre-order — it truly means a lot to any author.
As always, I’m preparing some surprises for you.
The Sixth Heart
It is an honest fairy tale for adults about finding smart love in the modern world in an unusual way. It is a book for readers with imagination and the ability to read between the lines.
How many hearts do you have to break before you meet the right partner? How many times will your heart get broken? How does a woman love, how does a man love, and how can only a real witch love? What happens if the most ordinary girl is offered several fantastic candidates and even taught how to prepare a love potion? You will find the answers to all these questions in this book, which is the first part of a series of fairy tales for adults about finding love.
Attention! This book was written specifically for those not afraid of wise discoveries in love.
Nothing Personal, Just Marriage
Дерзкая, откровенная книга для умных, красивых женщин и смелых мужчин является продолжением книги "Ничего личного, просто любовь", при этом книги можно читать в любой последовательности.
Эта книга о настоящей̆, мудрой любви без розовых очков, о современной концепции брака и его разных эволюционировавших формах. Книга противопоказана людям без чувства юмора и тем, кто видит в официальном браке мечту всей жизни и решение всех своих проблем. Книгу можно и нужно читать вне зависимости от того, верите ли вы в официальный брак, состояли ли уже в нем или состоите сейчас.
"Nothing Personal, Just Love"
This book is about smart real love without pink glasses for beautiful, smart women and brave, curious men. We do not recommend this book to people without a sense of humor and also to those who believe that love will solve all their problems. This book is a must-read for all mature single and happily married women and men who are not afraid to recognize their own weaknesses and faults in the heroes of the book and who can honestly talk about smart real love, money, the relationship between partners, lovers, and husband and wife.
How to pre-order the book “Nothing Personal, Just Love”?
The book will be shipped by “Nova Poshta” from 1 till March 8, depending on the timing of the release of books from the printing house.
If you want to order 3 Svetlana’s books, including “Nothing Special, Just Love”, your order will be sent by one shipment after March 1, till March 8. If you order 3 books there will be a special surprise for you specially from the author.
“7 Principles of the Woman The Brand”
In this book, you will find stories of failed and successful attempts to build a relationship. It is hard to be a woman in the modern male world, but if you learn to see the true needs, desires, and fears of men you can become a real Superwoman. In this book, a professional matchmaker will share real stories and true reasons why some people cannot find love. In this book, you won’t find esoteric rituals or magical advice on how to win him or her over, just the practical experience of a professional matchmaker. You will learn why so many women ruin their chances to be with a great guy and how they are not capable of seeing and appreciating a great match right in front of her. Step by step you will learn the 7 main Principles of the woman who chooses only smart love in her life.
last published 2021.
“The Eighth Principle of The Woman The Brand”
Bold, straightforward book for smart, beautiful women and daring men. This is the second book in the book series “7 Principles of the Woman The Brand”, though you can read the books in any order. If you have decided to devote some time to someone truly important – to you – and to learn more about the difficult world of relationships between men and women, to cry and to laugh – then reading this book is a perfect journey for you. The author will speak about men using the language of women. Together with the author and main characters you will be searching for smart love, feel “butterflies in the stomach” and will find out what actually happens after you have found “the one”.
The Proper Gift for a Smart, Beautiful Woman
A special box for two great books. The set includes two books and a unique shopper in exclusive packaging
To order the set of two books €28
The author can sign the book for you
4 books set with a gift shopping bag #LiveLoveRead:
Book Launch/Signing Event for “The Eighth Principle of The Woman The Brand”
Projects
Boutique matchmaking service for gentlemen from all around the globe who dream to find their love in Ukraine. We are the first and only matchmaking company in Ukraine licensed by the Matchmaking Institute in New York and the Association of Dating Coaches in the USA. Since 2008 we have created 130+ marriages. 85% of our male clients find their true love and get officially married. We value the privacy of our clients and provide premium matchmaking services.
Licensed professional dating boutique for ladies. We don’t work with any online platforms, do not write letters, or invite to chatrooms. We introduce our clients only in a traditional old-school way – on a real date. We do not publish any information about our male or female clients online. We truly respect the privacy of our clients.
First professional Russian-speaking portal for new and experienced cupids, psychologists, and all specialists who have a professional interest and are truly passionate about the dating industry. Here you can find interesting articles, educational seminars, discussions, and meetings with colleagues. Lots of practical useful tips can help you increase the level of your service and the success rate of your clients.
Unique premium events for ladies for several years already surprise and inspire beautiful, smart, active, and open-minded Ukrainian women not only with unusual dress-code and “shoe control” – high hills only but also with the best speakers – psychologists, businesswomen, bloggers, designers, and other creative like-minded talented ladies.
Merch
Shopper #убейвсебекурицу
Shopper with the motto #убейвсебекурицу is created especially for bold, smart and beautiful women and daring men. It is perfect to carry your lunchbox, shoes, laptop, IPad, or two good books. Our designer thinks this shopper will take perfect care of not only what you carry inside but also what you broadcast to the world.
Cap #убейвсебекурицу
This cap with the motto #убейвсебекурицу will give a unique touch to your look. You can order it in white or black color. People say this cap makes you extra smart but we have no authority to either confirm or deny this.
Branded Socks
You can choose one of these unique designs, or you can order them all: “Don’t be a crazy chicken”, “Nothing personal, just love”, and “The kisses”.
Live shopping bag. Love. Read.
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